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Dating a shy gentleman

Skip this Ad Next Don't Take His Shyness Personally The first thing you need to know before you do anything is that you can't take his shyness personally. It is a difficult tightrope to walk, but the consolation is that these men rarely receive attention from women, and have a lot of love and devotion to give you. But that is not the best thing to do when you are going on a date with a guy.

Instead suggest to him that

Instead, suggest to him that he can pick you up if he likes. Or if you have a class together, talk about that.

Women who are attracted to shy men are sometimes manifesting their need to feel dominance over a man e. If you know - deep down - that you could never be with a man who doesn't have the balls to pursue you, then you shouldn't waste your time with him or waste his time with you. This will offend him if you flaunt it, or if it is evident due simply to the social magnitude of the task you've assumed for example, if you take his hand and lead him through a crowd.

He will open up slowly once you start. You just need to know the right way of getting to know them better and getting them out of their shell. Before you do that, try to find out some stuff about him. You can do that through flirting, although aggressive flirting may not work with a shy dude. Be encouraging Compliments, guys like them too.

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Be careful with whom you introduce him to Once you guys start building your relationship you might be eager to introduce him to your friends and family. He is likely to be afraid and will not want to take the risk of being the first one to start flirting. Only ask if you actually could use the help. Make a personal connection with a shy guy by increasing the level of verbal intimacy. Contact Author Dating a shy and introverted guy can be challenging because a girl will need to take the lead and make the first move.